What Happens When Porn Stars Get Married: “It’s Just For Me”
Joanna Angel and Aaron are a somewhat peculiar marriage. They are considered monogamous, except when they are in front of a camera
When a couple is made up of two porn actors, a certain sexual openness is assumed. Open minded, they take their love as unconditional but leave space for third parties, either on or off the sets and cameras. But is it possible to succeed in the world of adult cinema and remain monogamous? This is the case of two very successful people in the adult film world: Joanna Angel and her husband Aaron, who entered the industry as soon as he met her future girlfriend. It is common for professionals who engage in it to affirm that pornographic sex is not real, but interpreted. This implies that because two or more people have relationships, the intention is not the same as in real life, as there is no intimacy and it is in view of everyone. In other words, it is not the same to do it in front of the cameras than in the shared solitude of love.
Angel and Aaron met six years ago, before he entered the industry. She promised herself that she would never date another porn actor after a troubled separation. However, dating what she calls “civil” also has its risks. “Aaron and I slept for a month and we didn’t do any scenes. In the end that changed,” Angel declares in ‘The New York Post’. “At first he agreed. He was, in fact, a fan of VR Porn. But there were days when I thought he was going crazy. He was very honest with me when he felt insecure shooting porn. He did not perform in front of the cameras that well. like others, and his ego was damaged. ” After meeting, they struck up a relationship and agreed not to sleep with others. They got married and she asked him based on her bad experience in a previous relationship. “Before being with Aaron, I went out with another boy who was not into porn, but I felt bad sleeping with others at work, so I encouraged him to go out and have fun with other girls,” explains the actress. “I thought it was fair. But I couldn’t handle it well, I didn’t want an open relationship, but when I thought about my work I thought it was the right thing to do.” She explains that she “went crazy” when a girl who was out of the spotlight with her boyfriend started posting about the two of them on social media. That’s when she realized there was a clear difference between the emotional intimacy he shared with her and the work they both did.
I don’t do so many scenes, I only do 12 to 14 a year, “wields Angel.” Now, he does 12 to 15 a month and things have changed; I feel like I’m the one dating someone from outside the industry. We had the same conversations as in my first relationship and I learned that I can’t agree to certain things, “she laments. But even though she’s a porn star, that doesn’t mean she’s comfortable dating another sex worker.” I feel uncomfortable, I tell him. For example, on two occasions she has had sex in front of the cameras with two girls. It doesn’t happen to me very often. “Besides being married, they have a curious relationship as boss and employee, since she is also a producer, screenwriter and video director.” I direct my husband all the time and it doesn’t seem strange to me, at all . It’s probably weird for the other girls in our movies. For an hour, I want him not to see me as his wife. If I feel like a girl is getting an alibi because of me, I leave the room, “observes the actress.
Professional porn is a controlled and guarded environment that allows those who maintain monogamous relationships to be at ease when one person of the couple does scenes with others. “If you’re in bed and you give her ‘a good morning surprise’, that’s spontaneous sex, that is, it doesn’t happen on the set of Rojade,” admits Angel. “It’s still him, but it’s a different version of him. You have to do something that is not natural or comes out of you. You have to be aroused for a long period of time, change your angle to allow the correct shot of the camera and then ejaculate. when prompted. That’s not something any man can do at home. ” Aaron and Angel may be further removed from monogamy than they realize and have relationships with other people at work; however, the sexual relationships that they decide to have are different, spontaneous and full of intimacy and pleasure. No cameras, no characters, no spotlights or script. Perhaps there is the trick to stay together and at the same time separate from their role as adult film stars.
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